Just like a kid - Jay Z

It was the best surprise gift ever, tickets to the Jay-Z concert on Thursday January 17th. I was excited and if you've ever seen Jay Z in concert- you understand.. If you have not, and you are a true fan - you must put it on the bucket list!!! He is polarizing, yet down to earth. Jay Z stepped on the stage, every single person in the Verizon center were on their feet… thats right not ONE person was sitting.. the entire concert… I rapped every song, i did every single rap movement… to include a mis-placed run-dmc pose… if we were anywhere else, my niece would've told me i was embarrassing her.. but SHE was into it also.. My most favorite part of the evening was when he left the stage and said "good-night"(i can still hear his voice-hahaha)NOT ONE PERSON MOVED.. my niece said no one is moving.. i said nope because he didn't do "Encore"…. oh yeah.. he came back and did Encore and some more.. that man rapped for 2 hours all in all… Timbaland is his traveling DJ or at least he was the one at the DC show… and Timbaland is amazing.. he performed(played music) during the intermission (jay changing) and NO ONE SAT DOWN… it was a party at the Verizon center.. of all of his beats from Aaliyah Missy, Justin and Jay himself.. he was off the chain… but of course Jay Z pointing out different people in the audience and telling him what he noticed while performing,is a staple. Him saying that if it weren't for us there would be no him… AT EVERY SINGLE show, is a true down to earth performer… I cannot get in all the great parts there are so many..i was like a kid at my first Jay Z concert. i can't wait to go again!!! most likely soon in another city!!!! why - because i am a true jay z fan. you will HAVE to see him for yourself… you'll have a good time- pinky swear… sharing is caring…

In my lane

I decided to start this blog to download/purge things rolling around in my head, making room for creativity. Within the last week i attempted to write about several things id seen or heard happening around me… and then i was hit with the bug - being sick is NO picnic. Over these last few weeks I've seen allot, but this weekend i was able to reflect and put things into perspective. I've known for sometime, and try to practice this myself (but its hard). Staying in my lane and minding my business… with reality shows and real life drama's happening in front of you.. its hard to mind your business and stay in your lane. Life isn't easy for anyone. Living life to your fullest potential (on purpose) is by far the hardest thing in the world to do… but guess what, if we don't try, if we don't put our energy, time and effort into what we are to do.. then how can we get to the potential(the purpose)? No more trying to find out this about a person, or that about a person. No more of placing people into OUR perceived categories, we will never ever get to the purpose. I believe we each have a lane in life.. and my lane isn't your lane. Its MINE.. there can be no competition, there can be no hate, there can be no discussion about me and how i live my life… if you are in you're lane, doing you're thing and getting to your purpose - you'll have no time to focus on others. Focusing on others takes away precious time from your purpose. get focused on your stuff, do you. and the rest will absolutely fall into place.. don't trivialize life by wondering or judging or assuming what others are doing - it only takes time away from your goals?? use time wisely.. focus on you and doing your best. I'm continuing my writings staying in my lane.

Words 001 (Lord of the breakthrough)

I love music- its a family rite of passage to looooooove music! finding meaningful words within a song is so amazing to me, its like the writer peeks into my soul(yes, I'm personalizing this) and says she needs this… so Im sharing with you!! because i care… These words have been my anchor for YEARS - I hope you find these words as meaningful as i have, enjoy! 'Lord of the breakthrough' by Isreal & new breed----->When God Speaks to a people, when he speaks to a house, when he speaks through a Profit , when he speaks through Apostolic voices.. when he speaks through Minister and Psalmist.. I believe he LISTENS for a response. Lets Respond tonight, from the other side. Some of you been pressing for years up nights can't sleep, you feel this anti-you barrier PUSHING DOWN ON YOU, but every time you keep pressing that BARRIER has having to BACKUP, its having to WITHDRAW its a glass ceiling you've been hitting with the top of your head, and instead of getting upset at that glass ceiling and quitting theres a heart rate that drives you.. your calf muscles are getting stronger, your starting to jump again.. regardless of the temporary pain you feel in your head. Regardless of the temporary pain you feel in your body theres a breakthrough - that glass HAS to shatter that wall HAS to come down. I DARE YOU TO RESPOND… IM BREAKING- BREAKTHROUGH… Keep pushing, if its for YOU then you'll get it! can you share a song that does it for you? Sharing is caring. XOXO

BOOK Recommendation…

I took today off.. couldn't resist doing some work, or at least jotting down what i need to address tomorrow… i get an 'F' in taking off days! I also took the time to re-read 'Daring Greatly' in 30 mins - its an expert summary of the book 'Daring Greatly' both by Brene Brown! Its a great read, freeing. The book discusses self worth not knowing who you are and your worth can cause a cataclysm within our lives. There are so many things i can apply this book to within my life.. Not because my live is a mountain of issues (just its fair share).. but because i always see the lessons, its nice to know how i approach situations(AKA lessons) is due to knowing who i am and my worth. In reading this book, paths to goals become clearer- WHY? because I can see what is necessary to obtain them… In reading this book, people become clearer- WHY? because i know their role in my life and the branches on the apple tree (my definition of friendship tree-Erica Badu)become stable. In reading this book, I'm working on being more open - Why? because it allows me to be who I am suppose to be.. i can continue to wax sentimental on this book, but ill let you read it yourself… I plan to read the original book "Daring Greatly' by Friday. Why did i share this? sharing is caring!!! Do you have a suggestion of life affirming books?? Rosslyn loves to read… keeps my imagination going.. until next time!!!! This entry makes me think of the following words… WORDS: There's a thousand you's. there only one of me… - Words of Kanye West in Stronger..

Sooo much fun

During this holiday season I've had so much fun!!!! My Mom,My boys(men)and my brothers family did a photo session with JEG3 Photography (information below)… Happy hour with the team members of epic proportion… then off to Jersey for a customer appreciation holiday party and cut up with my cousins as always!! Lots of fun… Christmas day with my sister in law's family - always fun… I love them… All my boys(men) and i enjoyed quiet times with Scooby & Kitty Girl(oxymoron quiet times - Scooby)… we ate and ate some more… i have gained gained gained… about 5lbs… but i will work it off, as i have not gone to zumba in a month.. but i have to say i have enjoyed this season.. there were fun surprises at work, like unknowingly walking into your bosses office while he's siting there with an elf hat on-trying to have a serious conversation.. I've learned that going where your not wanted yet invited can be inspiring… Life has taught me sooo much.. and finding those who are in your corner and supporting your dreams is an assignment they receive from the Lord!!! so you never know where you'll meet them be kind to all! Next year can only get better. For those who really love me and are in my corner… you know the next steps and details- Lets pray for a steady pace in achieving those things.. I look forward to carrying this fun into the new year!!!! lots of plans, lots of fun! JEG3 Photography as promised -------> JEG3 Photography JEG3Photography@gmail.com 202-486-4156

44 things - Bringing in the New Year!

Since this is my 44th year of living I've decided to post the 44 things I've learned.. Some im still working on.. I have "ground hogs day experiences" with others... UGH!! But kept right on getting on... Some are lifes lessons, real experiences.. some I've learned from a good spirtual word. Some I've learned from other people's life lessons, there are movies, songs, books, tv and just all around living.. these are the things I(can I say it.... ) know for sure: 1)God is good 2)The ocean is amazing 3)There is a lesson in every situation 4)I dont hear messages on Sunday for you, I only hear them for ME 5)Silence is a peaceful place 6)I will not always win, but i will always learn 7)A true friend is forever 8)Love nor life is ever simple 9)Laughter is refreshing 10)Everyone has a purpose 11)Children are a blessing 12)Time with core friends is necessary 13)Falling in love is a must 14)Good music is terapudic 15)You mess up, but you can come back 16)Life is a blessing 17)Life should be a no judgement zone 18)Voting is empowering 19)Forgiveness is fullfilling 20)Live life for yourself, youll be much happier 21)Time alone is a gift 22)Learn to stop going where im really not wanted 23)My relationship with God is personal 24)Compete with no one 25)Be better today than you were yesterday 26)Honesty is the best policy,no matter what (even if it hurts) 27)Gladys Knight the best female artist 28)Rise within us by Isreal & New Breed, keeps me grounded 29)Im thankful for every lesson and blessing and ready for more 30)Love is unconditional 31)The devil has many faces and yet, he is still the devil 32)I am not the doctor (i cannot provide healing advice if you aren't listening 33)Earth, Wind and Fire STILL AMAZING 34)A slow dance is so itmate and lovely 35)When people show you who they are believe them 36)There is somethings to be said for 80's music 37)I enjoy spending time alone 38)Being true to myself is rewarding 39)spending time with my core family Sons, Mother, Brother, Sister-In-Law, Nephew and Nieces is so rewarding 39)There is nothing more rewarding than a loving family 40)It doesnt matter where you've been,it matters where your going 41)Save yourself for people who listen and care 42)Everyone isn't a confidant 43)Know who your core people are, they will keep you grounded and support your wildest dreams(could be a team of one, until otherwise assigned) 44)Beleving in yourself isn't easy but necessary. This year, I will begin the real work in the setting up of my non-profit, Im starting small with a scholorship fund for local teen mothers who want to go to college. I'll have a fundraiser within the first quarter - I get excited at the thought of planing it!!!! And YES you are invited. Im following my assignment, purpose, hearts desire and true passion this year... and it will be the greatest year yet!! Im sure of that... On the local side I plan to continue to and grow into what God said.. I will get back into working out, I've been bad over the Holidays, and will get back on track ASAP!! I plan to spend quality time alone, and with my core family this year. I plan to have a photo shoot of those important in my life core friends and family.. I think that'll be fun!I plan to publish another book(or two) so that i can purchase a Harley, I also plan to move forward, no more ground hogs day moments(been there done that, moving on) I plan to just live my life this year.. as i have in the past years BUT BETTER!!!!! What will you do??

A skin softening discovery

Hey there… Yesterday for some reason i decided to google how to use epson salt as an exfoliant. I read that you can mix it with your favorite shower gel. Mix Epson salt, shower gel and baby oil creating a paste then apply it to your skin for about 10 mins (it may be a bit messy) think of it as an at home spa body scrub treatment. Jump in the shower rinse the mixture off, then cleanse with shower gel until all remnants of the mixture has dissolved. before toweling off rub on baby oil and let it sit for 10 mins (sorta drying).. then towel off. Your skin will be silky soft. Im suggesting this once every two weeks, especially during the winter months. This was so much fun… and relaxing… everyone needs girl-time!!! Enjoy!!!!!